Love is an intense feeling of affection toward another person. It's a profound and caring attraction that forms emotional attachment.
But on the other hand lust is a strong desire of a sexual nature that is based on physical attraction. Lust can transform into deep romantic love, but it usually takes time.
If your man is always talking about sex. Definitely he watches porn a lot and some how he wants to use you for his needs. that is lust.
Signs that you're in lust:
- You're focused on the physical appearance of the object of your desire.
- There is a strong desire to have sex, but not deep emotional conversations.
- You’d rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, not discuss real feelings.
- You are lovers, but not necessarily friends
Signs that you're in true romantic love:
This type of love is not just an emotion, it's also a craving. There is a strong emotional craving, the love drive is even stronger than the sex drive.
- Possessiveness. When you desire only that one person, you know you are in deep romantic love.
- You want to spend quality time together other than sex.
- You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.
- You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings and make each other happy.
- He or she motivates you to be a better person.
- You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.
- You can’t stop thinking about that person.
- Grows Slowly
- Has a future
- At first sight
- Is about today
- If he always want to take you to a room or hotel in private than to hangout with your friends . Its a trap honey. Beware!!!
- If he always clear you about not getting married and do not accept you publicly thats the time you should get rid of him.
- Every man is a good problem solver but if he is not taking care of you. He is not listening to your problems and not getting interest in it. Its time to track him more before getting in a serious relationship.
- Last but not the least , go check his phone once. If he often flirts with every girl he knows. He is certainly not the one.